Tuesday, July 26, 2011

You Can't See Me...(part 2)

I must apologize now...and I promise this will be the last of the phantom ghost.  In my previous post I stated, "the video below is just one, of about 50, that I could have if I were a little faster when grabbing the camera."  Well, I've had time to practice throughout the day and it seems that as the day has gone on, I have drastically increased my camera grabbing speed.  So much that I'm able to bring you the following video, which is Harper walking back to his bed, after getting up.  (Please note:  I do not let him walk into walls every time.. this was the first time I was able to get it on video.)

You Can't See Me...

I'm not sure what it says about the person if he constantly likes to be covered up.  Is there some deeper, underlying message there?  Maybe it means the person isn't happy with himself if he is always hiding under a blankie.  Or, maybe it's just a 21-month old pretending no one can see him.  Enter Harper.

For the past couple of weeks or so, our very gregarious, social little boy has had a fascination with walking around the house, covered up by a thick heavy crib blanket.  You may have read my post last week, where he walked out of his room and smacked into the wall.  Well, the saga continues.  However, he's getting much better with his sense of direction.  He can now navigate from the family room, through the kitchen, to the utility room...all, while hiding under his blanket.  Impressive, I tell you!  (For your viewing pleasure, the video below is just one, of about 50, that I could have if I were a little faster when grabbing the camera.)

Monday, July 25, 2011

A Lesson in Forgiveness

Yesterday at church, two of Warren's church buddies, at two different times, so sweetly said "Hi Warren" in passing.  Warren gave some sort of a grunt and hid behind my leg.  Incredibly rude and totally embarrassing!

I talked with Warren later about the incident and tried explaining to him that it's just the polite thing to do to speak to others.  I also said that if he kept acting like that, he wasn't going to have any friends.  Then, I asked him how he would feel if he said "Hi" to them and they were rude like he was.  While nothing should surprise me with him, I still am never prepared.  Warren immediately looks up at me (and to add to the atmosphere, we're walking hand in hand in a parking lot) and says "Mommy, I would forgive them.  That's what Jesus wants us to do is to forgive people.  So, I would just forgive them, because I know they probably didn't mean it."

Well, of course that instantly melted my heart.  And I realized how right he was.  And, like most parents, I started thinking "Awww, how cute is that?  My four year old is teaching me a lesson in forgiveness."

Then, as I thought about it more....I began to realize....we've got one smart boy on our hands.  He knows just what to say to a) get him off the hook and b) make me stop dead in my tracks and think he's the best kid ever!  Well, it worked.  And, although I know he was probably "playing the system"....I'm going to choose to believe he was teaching me a lesson about forgiveness.

The Bible says in Matthew 18:3 "...unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of God."