Friday night, we surprised the boys with a trip to get ice cream. Warren got the Dino Sundae, complete with sprinkles and a dinosaur cookie. Harper got purple dinosaur ice cream, in a cone (and yes, he ate the whole thing). While it made for a late night, it was totally worth it. As we sat on the back of the truck, sharing our ice cream, and watching the boys' clothes slowly take on the shades of dinosaurs, we started thinking less about what time the boys would go to bed and more about the time we were having together, staying up late, eating ice cream.
Fast forward to Saturday night. After dinner, Warren whispered in my ear, "Mommy, I have an idea. What if we go to Yogurt Mountain for dessert?" I smiled at Warren, who shares in my ice cream addiction, and said "Oh, buddy, you probably need to ask Daddy about that one." Aside from spending our calorie allotment the night before, it was the end of the month and our bank account was equally spent. Of course, Warren's five year old mind was not considering budgetary factors.
So, he boldly asks "Daddy, you know, we could go to Yogurt Mountain for dessert?" I should preface the next part of the conversation by saying that Chris and I try very hard to teach the value of money to the boys. By no means do they ever get everything they want; and we are never afraid or embarassed to tell them that we can't afford something. That being said, Chris' answer to Warren was "Oh buddy, that would be a good idea, but we just can't afford it right now. Besides, we just had ice cream last night." And, while he may not have been considering monetary factors, clearly, he was being health conscious. "Well, actually, Daddy, Yogurt Mountain isn't ice cream, it's yogurt." Oh, you can imagine how proud I was. There was my boy....able to quickly come up with an argument for ice cream...or yogurt. Unfortunately, a great argument still does not balance the budget. Well, actually...

